Moving Forward

So you know when you go through abuse of any form it is hard to move forward. I as an abuse victim and a sexual abuse victim, it was hard to move forward. I am going to tell you that there was a time where I was not really sure if I could move on because the anger I was experiencing was true and un-doubted rage. people would ask me "Aiden, how did you get over it?" I can sit here and tell you that it took years for me to move on after the abuse occurred, my father hi family and others that not only lead to physical abuse but mental and emotional. If you have read my book you would understand why I say that abuse and the scars sometimes it is hard to hide. The physical scars are healed but the mental scar have taken years to heal and the heart that was broken by many is stills lowly getting healed and I can thank my fiance Brooke for that because she is putting a heart back together that she did not break. I can tell you this; having the grace of God and a good family and beautiful yet very understanding Fiance has made all the difference. Moving forward is not going to be easy but I can help you with these steps:

• Forgiveness

Forgiveness is not for the other person it is for you. Stop trying to figure out where you went wrong because the evil in this word has no preference because evil will do anything and everything it will take your happiness and your forgiveness and your love.

• Understanding

Understand it was not your fault this is where forgiveness comes into place! You were and are NOT at fault for what happened to you. In my journey to "moving forward" I had to understand that it was not my fault.

• Patience

There is more but these three are the most important. Being patient and having love as hard as it is love the person that hurt you. be patient because healing will come it may not be on your timing but it will come so being patient is the biggest thing.